Wednesday, August 8, 2012

Rebounding and Being Co-Dependent After Divorce

I've been thinking a lot about the consequences of rebounding relationships shortly after divorce, and the negative outcome from being co-dependent. 

It's a part of my weekly article that comes out tomorrow. I just touched the surface about these topics, but have so much more to share. I'd love to hear your thoughts about rebounding relationships right after divorce, and what you believe being co-dependent is all about.

I have a strong belief about having relationships right after divorce, because many of them are based on not wanting to be alone, so to speak. Time is not taken to really search down deep about what happened in your marriage, what part did you play in the unravelling of your marriage, what could you have done to make a positive difference if possible, and what did you learn from your divorce that will help you be a better spouse or partner in the future, once you have healed inside.

Love you to comment and share your thoughts on this big topic.

5 comments:

  1. Maybe this will pass, who knows, but dating is the LAST thing on my mind. I'm not up to even having lunch with anyone! I remember dating, getting engaged, and then getting married without very much upheaval. You seem to get swept up in the excitement and growth of it all. At least for now, I'm swept up in the stress and aggregation of ending a relationship that legally seems to never end and personally never will. Perhaps I'm impatient but since I decided how I wanted my life to change, I just want to get on with it. As Thoreau wrote, "Simplify, simplify, simplify." I want my life to have as few complications as possible. So, what's wrong with being alone? I was LOTS more LONELY when I was married and part of a bad marriage.

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  2. What a very nice post, very informative. As we have discussed before, sometimes, being a celebrity can clearly add unique stressors to a marriage. Don't you agree? Here's hoping that this couple can amicably work through any remaining issues in their divorce with the help of their respective divorce lawyers.

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  3. If you recently got divorced, and are looking for dating advice for women, then read on. We live in a very fascinating world, which can be even more challenging for divorcees. Which is why they may require some help so they could become successful in dating.

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  4. 24 HOURS  LOVE SPELL CASTER (DR. GBOJIE) THAT HELPED ME BRING BACK MY DIVORCE HUSBAND CONTACT HIM NOW FOR ANY KIND OF HELP  

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    website : http://gbojiespiritualtemple.website2.me/Thanks Dr. Gbojie 

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